Monday, April 11, 2011

Transitioning and the Fiance, Not A Match

I happen to love the process of my hair journey especially the last six months where its been focused on becoming natural, the biggest kink (pun intended:)) is my fiance. He much prefers straight hair and keeps asking when I'm getting my next perm,though I've explained that I'm letting my hair grow natural. I've embraced the kinky coily texture but sadly he is definitely not happy.

My hair relaxed:

My transitioning hair:


I hate to be a divided household but I'm still transitioning for another 12 to 18 months and considering it is my head and hair :) I'll do as I like. He can like it or lump it.

Any tips or suggestions for getting him to understand would be greatly appreciated. :)
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1 comment:

  1. This has happened with most of us while transitioning. You just have to show him that your natural hair can look really good. He's afraid you are going to turn into a hot mess. the bottom line is he's either going to have to deal with it, or you will feel the pressure to cave in.